Signs He is Cheating, Catch Him Cheating…Now!

Did Medea kill Jason for infidelity? Or only their children?

We know Jason and his Argonauts for their brave act in that “Golden Fleece” adventure. The sorcerer princess Medea supported and later married Jason but also killed their children. It seems her act was revenge against his infidelity. Does it mean he was survived and let the children to die? Or whether he too murdered by Medea?

No, Jason lived. It would have been all too easy if he’d died–then he wouldn’t have to deal with the guilt and remorse after his wife and children died. Medea killed them off (among others) and went away to Athens in Helios’s chariot (he was her grandfather, and she had powerful friends in Athens.)

I think Medea might have been a parable to caution against the use of magic (well, illegal/unethical means, in a broader sense) for personal gain. You can’t have a powerful witch kill for you and bear your children and then throw her over when you meet some rich chippy who’ll let you live on her Greek island. Either you live with your witch lover or you don’t get to use her powers for yourself. Or maybe it was just to caution against taking advantage of a powerful woman by exploiting the fact that she loves you. Maybe that’s a little closer to the truth. I think the spells and potions just make it a better story. Killing the kids just shows Jason what he could have had with her–when her love turned sour, she’d rather that the kids die than live with their traitorous father. Technically, she probably could have taken them with her, what with the deity relatives and all…but that’s not how the story goes. Oh, well.

Surviving Infidelity with Dr. Frank Gunzburg

Ladies, do you feel marriage counseling has worked for you?

In your experience, when the issues don’t involve physical abuse or infidelity, do you feel the counseling you received worked after the sessions were over?

YES, I can truly say it DOES help situations in your lives & gives you impute from a Professional. I’ve been to a LOT of counselors in my lifetime being married to an alcoholic who now is my ex husband. They have you BOTH fill out forms, some will see you one at a time, then bring you both in as a couple. My ex cheated on me countless times & left me a few to go live with others. At our last counseling session, we were told he was a “womanizer” & to get help for that along with of course AA. I tho’t if he’d stop drinking our marriage would at least have a chance as I’ve been sober for 20+ yrs. WRONG!!! He also told us our marriage would NOT work out. How rite he was! I finally accepted the truth as such & let our marriage go. Of course I’ve since found happiness. But, counseling IS well worth it, at least give it a try IF you feel you do need it…the best to you…:)

What are some good books that deal with the subjects Of Infidelity, jealousy, and insecurity in relationships?

My significant other and I are both dealing with feelings of insecurity and jealousy over one another, which automatically leads us to the subject of infidelity. Are there any spiritual or new age books that help with this subject? I’m not exactly interested in a religious point-of-view, but more of a self-help or psychological book that unravels the egotism behind these topics.

Books aren’t going to solve the problem… communication is. Stop looking for someone else’s idea of how your relationship can work, and start working it out with the other person in your relationship.

If there is insecurity, it means there’s not enough openness or trust. If there’s no trust, there is no relationship.

TALKING. I know it’s scary, being male and all… but if you want your woman to trust you, and you want to trust her, a good, honest conversation, where there is a no-judgement rule, where cricitism can me made without defensive responses and where insecurities can be aired.

The rule of thumb is this: If you don’t trust your companion, is it because of their behaviour and actions, or is it just your own guilt talking, projecting onto them?

If you want to salvage your relationship, Amazon.com isn’t going to do it for you.

♦Part 2♦ Marriage Counseling and Relationship Advice ❦Bishop TD Jakes❧

Men’s Infidelity Triggers?

Read the article below. Who else can see the obvious oversight in this article? 100 points to whoever gets it right! Don’t forget to click the link (here are 10 simple secrets successful spouses know) And the index in the left column. Haha. And to think this article is written by a man. LOL And we wonder why marriages in the US fail so much!!

Men cheat because they aren’t getting love, affection, respect, admiration, attention and sex from their women. Duh.

Touchy-Feely Shit

What advice did Newt Gingrich have for Tiger Woods when he consulted him about marriage infidelity?

Newt told him to stay away from white women, they ain’t nuttin but trouble.

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