Infidelity Self Help
Wednesday, August 17th, 2011
My wife and my self are seperated due to infidelity on her part.?
My wife and my self are seperated due to infidelity on her part. Our three sons live with me. my wife asks me for finacial help because she is getting behind with her bills. In my heart I want to help but my mind tells me no. Am I wrong for not helping her?
No you’re not wrong in anyway. Your wife is an adult, she did what she did knowing it was wrong and now she’s in a bind, let her get herself out. If anything you’d be saying it was okay for her to do what she did by paying her bills for her. Besides that, there’s four of you, you and your three sons who she didn’t even think about when she did what she did. You have three other mouths to feed, obviously she was only concerned about herself and her happiness when she did what she did. And here’s the thing, obviously you weren’t good enough for her, for what ever reason it may have been that pushed her to cheat, but now all of a sudden she’s wanting your help. In short, you’re good enough to pay her bills, but not good enough to be her husband. Tell her to ask “her man” to pay her bills, your family’s more important, which is a sad thing that it wasn’t as important to her as it was to you.
Marilyn Belleghem On The Bottom Line

