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Infidelity Self Help

Wednesday, August 17th, 2011

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My wife and my self are seperated due to infidelity on her part.?

My wife and my self are seperated due to infidelity on her part. Our three sons live with me. my wife asks me for finacial help because she is getting behind with her bills. In my heart I want to help but my mind tells me no. Am I wrong for not helping her?

No you’re not wrong in anyway. Your wife is an adult, she did what she did knowing it was wrong and now she’s in a bind, let her get herself out. If anything you’d be saying it was okay for her to do what she did by paying her bills for her. Besides that, there’s four of you, you and your three sons who she didn’t even think about when she did what she did. You have three other mouths to feed, obviously she was only concerned about herself and her happiness when she did what she did. And here’s the thing, obviously you weren’t good enough for her, for what ever reason it may have been that pushed her to cheat, but now all of a sudden she’s wanting your help. In short, you’re good enough to pay her bills, but not good enough to be her husband. Tell her to ask “her man” to pay her bills, your family’s more important, which is a sad thing that it wasn’t as important to her as it was to you.

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Infidelity Books

Thursday, August 11th, 2011

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Do you think this infidelity uproar is just publicity for Jon&Kate+8?

I have actually read that they are now trying to write another book about being in the public eye & have it made into a movie!!!! Is this whole tabloid war, continuous media coverage all to build ratings for their premiere? If so, what do you think of parents putting such rumors out there all to generate more $? & if not-do you think these parents should put the show on hold to work on their issues OUT OF THE PUBLIC EYE? for their kids sake at least?

I’m not sure sometimes I do think its all for the publicity since there show isn’t all that interesting anymore, so they had to spice things up make people want to watch. And what draws viewers in? Drama and that’s just what is going on, so I believe there is a pretty good possibility that its all for publicity. If it is all true then yes I think they should take a break and get things together before airing all their dirty laundry, its bad enough the kids will eventually see all this they don’t need to go any further with it. I think they have already messed up their children though, I mean having your whole child hood aired on TV cant be healthy!

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Books Infidelity

Tuesday, August 2nd, 2011

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Can anyone recommend a deep love story in a book?

Im fed up with silly airy fairy love stories about girls obsessed in shoes looking for mr right. I want to read about a strong powerful woman/vixen and her lifelong quest to get her guy. Preferably a rags to riches or something along them lines and her devilish tactics at winning an old flame. Something deep with little or no humour. Betrayal, infidelities and bitch tactics would be a bonus. Any ideas would be greatly appriciated?

To drag out the classics, ‘try ‘Dangerous Liaisons’ by Pierre Choderlos de Laclos. (The Marquise de Merteuil is a wonderfully scheming vixen and an utter witch.)

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Infidelity Buster

Wednesday, March 30th, 2011

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Infidelity Quizzes

Wednesday, February 2nd, 2011

Is it possible to be an honest liar as concerns marital infidelity?

In the early years of my marriage I would cheat on my wife close to a dozen times a year. Mainly because the circumstances were opportune. She would be away on business trips and I would be minding the children. This allowed me a few days to mentally “reset” after romping, so that I could convince myself the whole thing had been far in past, and this allowed me to dissimulate. But I have been faithful for over a year and our situations have inverted. Now I travel on business and when I return she quizzes me. I feel my answers to be evasive and my eyes shift and avert hers and I fidget. The awful thing is that I am telling the God’s truth but I feel like I am lying. It would be awful to be caught out for something one did not do. How can I resolve this situation?

Sounds like your cheating past is catching up to you, so now you feel guilty even when you haven’t done anything. Maybe you just need to get it all out on the table and be honest with how many times, with who, etc…and let her make the decision of whether to stick around or not. There are no statutes of limitations regarding infidelity(if you never told the truth) in my book. It’s one thing if you told her everything and she still chose to forgive you, but it’s another, if you didn’t and expect her to understand and stay.

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