How can someone divorce their spouse yet still love him/her?
I’m curious about relationship dynamics of couples in general. I’ve read accounts on the internet of partners who are in the process of or already have divorced their spouse (the often cited reason is infidelity) but they say that they still miss and care deeply about their spouse. If he/she had an affair, is a abusive or is irresponsible with drugs would those acts not make one dislike their spouse, rather than love?
Marriage is supposed to be forever, and there’s a bond.
I started the divorce process and am about to file a default against my husband, from Hungary, who isn’t responding to anything. He has just been ignoring the documents sent to him. He never obtained his green card because we separated shortly after the marriage do to his infidelity. How long does it typically take for the process to be finalized when the other spouse isn’t compliant and does him not being legal here have anything to do with the time it takes?
His immigration status is irrelevant if he does not answer the complaint. If he were fully participating it might cause delays because of his need to get travel documents to come to the U.S. for court. The amount of time it will take depends on how busy your courts are but a default divorce shouldn’t take more than two or three months.
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Is there a correlation between the changing roles of women and the high divorce rate in America?
For example back in the day, women traditonally stayed home and took care of the house and kids, and the divorce rate was much lower. But now more and more women are working full time. Do you think that this is what is causing higher rates Of Infidelity, particularly in the workplace where having an affair is relatively common? Are co-worker relationships with the opposite sex damaging to a marriage?
Women are more financially independent nowdays & I think you can contribute that to high divorce rate. But the way you ask the question suggest that higher divorce might be due to women cheating at workplace? I think you’re incorrect.
Having an equal power with a man means that a woman has a say in their marriage & have the choice of leaving if things don’t live up to her standards. Which sounds bad but guess what, men do this all the time- since back in the days. Back then women didn’t have much choice b/c leaving would mean poverty etc, but now, thank goodness that’s not necessarily an option.
I’m divorced and honestly I am because I could afford it. My marriage was pretty bad & I stucked it out for almost 5 years. At the end I realized it wasn’t going to work out so I bailed out. The older women in my life (mostly family members) just looked at me in awe and say “You’re lucky you get to choose to leave a bad marriage because you could. We didn’t have a choice even if we wanted to.”
So no, I don’t think the fact women work causes higher rates of infidelity at the work place- but I do think the fact women work causes higher rate of divorce.
I’m 25 & my husband is 37. In two years, we’re thinking about retiring from pregnancy.?
Right now, we have two young boys so we’re hoping a lil girl in the family maybe soon. Cross fingers! Ideally for us, we think that 3 is enough & we can put a rest on the baby booming in the next two years or so. I’m actually open for permanent ligation & I assume there shouldn’t be any complication after such intrusive process but my hubby still insists in getting vasectomy. Which one do u think should we choose? This is something we have to work out essentially. Personally, I don’t want him to go through vasectomy thinking this might bring infidelity issues between us, knowing he’s had a lot of previous intimate relationships in the past. I’m just worried. He’s an attractive man, is in the top of his career & has the money to speak of. Please help. I’m the sooo possessive one & maybe the most paranoid too.
I don’t think a vasectomy will make your husband more likely to cheat on you. To answer your question, I think I’d go with the vasectomy. It’s a less intrusive process. He’s back on his feet in and walking out of the doc’s office afterward and all is well in a few days. Your procedure is a bit more complicated.
Does cheating online hold up in court?
My brother’s wife is having an “online affair” and I want to know if it holds up in court.
They live in Wyoming but the man whom she is cheating with lives in Florida.
If she moves there will the divorce be hell?
And SHE has a child from a prior relationship, but he as not yet adopted her…. they were in the process of it a few years back, but our mother talked him into waiting until the child is a teenager.
The courts no longer care who does what to whom, most states are no fault divorce states now. He should just file in his home state. florida is also a no fault divorce state.
