I would like to run a mini poll of divorced couples ?
I am trying to determine what percentage of males and females were to blame for the breakdown of marriages on account Of Infidelity.Please give your personal experience if possilble.
Females… most of the times its females. I mean my divorce was all because of a female… just i wasnt married to her
Feminists: Why do most of you cite Emma Bovary’s restrictive society as justification for her infidelity?
Why? That’s not a good enough reason.
The society of which I’m speaking is generally 19th century society–where women were subjugated to the house if married, or (if lucky), the convent.
These feminists say that Emma Bovary wasn’t acting on immature impulses and that Madame Bovary is simply a reflection of how human she really is.
You’re right, and that was painful to say.
In my opinion, there is no such thing as a good reason for infidelity.
I have not yet read Madame Bovary, so I am unsure what restriction you speak of, but there is still no good reason for infidelity.
But I’m also not a Feminist. I’m an Humanist. I believe in human rights, equal rights, fair treatment of BOTH sexes.
Were You Really Completely Fooled by His/Her Infidelity?
How many people here had a spouse cheat on them and truly never did see the signs? Did it really come as a complete and total shock, out of the blue? Details, if you care to share …
And if you DID see signs and catch them, what were the signs?
I saw the signs. She started coming home later. She dressed alot nicer. She wore thongs and matching bras, but would only wear boxers and old tshirts around the house. She was never, I repeat, never interested in sex. She started having to go on trips all of a sudden.
It took me a couple months of putting together the pieces and actually catching her, but I was able to. God, that seems so long ago now…like an old movie I saw or something. I won’t go into details about it, but I played amature detective and caught her with the guy. It wasn’t pleasent.
If you want to know more details or advice, drop me a line.
Emotional Infidelity
What do you think of this unfinished poem?
I just wrote this 15 min ago. Obviously it’s not very polished nor finished. But I just want honest opinions so I can fix it before I move on to write the rest of the poem. Thank you.
Drowned in self-condemnation, oh, infidelity, she sighs.
He lays her on his translucent roses; she wets her bitter tongue.
With his hand burned on her breasts, she breaths beautiful lies
As he thrusts where her gasping moans lingeringly hung.
Her fingernails dug his back for sweet gentle distraction,
She observes the empty, badly molded wall over his left shoulder.
She thinks, if human’s hearts could that much broken,
Maybe, no glitters or gold, nothing on Earth is truly permanent.
Dangerously, she used to love him like that.
She couldn’t stop watching him in her class.
All day, she prayed that he’d look her way.
She was just a little too excited about this twist of fate.
It is a good start you have said you know it needs fixing go ahead and do it, breathy keep it but watch the tempo and length of the lines as how it rolls off the tongue or the mind can make or break what you write, bumps stop us in the middle and everything ends prematurely.
i got…
Are these signs of cheating?
A friend of mine has a man who
flirts constantly with younger women who look totally opposit of his mate.
hugs and kiss women
telling them that you are my women
making his mate give them her used clothing so he can look at them
making one women jelous with another women no of these women are his mate.
looking and grabbing-hugging them
feeling on them when no one is around
when no one is around giving them compliments on their body
These aren’t signs of cheating, however it does say to me that he perhaps wants an open relationship, where each partner is free to do things with other people of the opposite sex. Usually cheaters are more discreet and change their own behavior and there own appearances. They would never intentionally lead on that their might be a problem. If you suspect him of cheating still, look to the small stuff. Has he bought new clothes? under-ware? has he gone out to run errands and stuff that he normally doesn’t do? has he changed his behavior towards his wife for the better? maybe being more loving, or receptive to her needs? (that is a sign of guilt) Just think about it. I have been cheated on, and I realized that my husband was cheating during an episode of Oprah, and my ex-husband had ALL the signs of how to tell if your mate is cheating. I had known that he was acting different lately, but I couldn’t figure out why…..then Oprah made me see exactly why!!!
EP:17 Tell Tell Signs Your Mate is Cheating