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Free Advice On Infidelity

Thursday, June 2nd, 2011

How To Forgive Infidelity and move on…?

My husband left me when our baby was just 4 months. He cheated in me and was seeing a coworker of his… He packed up hia things got an apt .. And moved out… So now he said he made a mistake… Now I know I cannot go back w him(this is the second time he cheats on me and left me when I needed him the most) so i do want to move on… But how do you forgive? I want to be free and stop torturing myself with these negative emotions thinking what he did w her … Hating her .. Hating him I want to be happy…
Any advice? Thank you….

You have to forgive him but not for him for yourself. He probably doesn’t even care if you forgive him or not. He simple feels that you should just except it and get over it. It may take time but strength is something you need to have and you can only find that from within. Sometimes these things happen for a reason. Believe that and know that there will be happy days again. A good man will come along. You just wait and see. All this will be behind you. Who knows you may even be thanking him one day.

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Long Term Infidelity

Wednesday, April 27th, 2011

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How do I ask my MIL not to let my son cry it out?

My mother-in-law wants to watch my 5-month-old son overnight for my husband’s & my 3rd wedding anniversary. I’m very grateful for the offer and intend to take her up on it, but she had commented once before about how my husband would cry so hard when falling asleep that he would vomit, and she has also hinted about peppermint sticks for his teething. I’m squarely against crying it out & am exclusively breastfeeding for the first six months.

I should add that I’m very concerned about her feelings because she’s going through a divorce right now due to Long Term Infidelity that was hidden in plain sight the whole time.

How do I ensure care that I believe to be in my son’s best interests without offending my MIL? (I don’t want to pass up her offer because I know how much she’s looking forward to it…and of course it’ll be good for hubby & me.)

You can tell her what and how you want her to take care of your son but it doesn’t guarantee that it will happen because your not there to watch her.

If you want to take your MIL’s offer then you need to accept that she may do it her way. If you don’t feel comfortable then just don’t let her babysit.

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Christian Marriage And Infidelity

Sunday, March 20th, 2011

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Why do Christians support like Eddie Long and Ted Haggard but refuse to accept homosexual marriage?

Why is that Christians have a problem with homosexuals pursuing marriage however they continue to worship and support bigoted pastors practicing homosexual infidelity?
You are ok with pedophilic and prostitutic behaviors yet against homosexuals with higher moral intergrities pursuits to marry.
Is this because you belive it’s ok as long as the homosexuals do practice it so scandalously without commitment? Or it it that leaders of your church are exempt from the rules?

Not all Christians are homophobic morons.

You can refuse to accept gay marriage without forcing that opinion on anyone else.

“The civil rights of none shall be abridged on account of religious belief or worship, nor shall any national religion be established, nor shall the full and equal rights of conscience be in any manner, or on any pretence, infringed.” – James Madison (Original wording of the First Amendment; Annals of Congress 434 (June 8, 1789).)

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Christian Help With Infidelity

Sunday, January 9th, 2011

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Gingrich on His Catholic Conversion
Former House speaker Newt Gingrich is explaining why he quit being a Baptist after 65 years. FULL STORY
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Christian Men Infidelity

Sunday, August 22nd, 2010

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Jessie Davis’ mom just said her daughter was a wonderful christian….what?

She was married to another man when she got pregnant the first time by Cutts, then she got pregnant again. She brought two children into this world without a family/father. I can only imagine the pain she caused Cutts’ wife and two daughters. I’M NOT SAYING SHE DESERVED TO DIE (DONT BE
SILLY) OR THAT BOBBY CUTTS ISN’T 100 PERCENT GUILTY Of Infidelity AND MURDER but why didn’t her mom and sisters AND HER CHURCH warm her that she was putting herself and children into a potentially risky situation.

I hear what you are saying. I heard her mother say that & I also heard a reporter comment on , if Jessie was so much of a christian as her mother states, why would she sleep with a married man, knowing he was married & have a child out of wedlock & about to have the second one. True she did not deserve to die & be killed at the hands of another, but her family should not paint a picture of her that she was not.I don’t think Jessie ever was married, never heard that one.

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