Are men more likely to be habitual cheaters or women?
Secondly, if you’re a habitual cheater, how do you possibly love your spouse? And spouses, please speak up….wouldn’t you want to know you’re living with a cheater? I just read over 50% of marriages face infidelity!! That’s a HIGH number. So, why stay married if you cannot respect your marriage!!!!!
I don’t think cheating is gender specific. I think cheating depends on the person.
I don’t get why people get married if they are going to cheat. Why take the vows if you never stop shopping?
are murder, rape, robbery, infidelity and other crimes part of god’s plan? If so, how can he be loving?
If everything isn’t going according to god’s plan, he isn’t god. Either way he shouldn’t be worshiped. Agree with me?
It doesn’t make sense, does it? Some speculate that God does not “plan” evil; he merely allows mankind to choose it. In the end, though, it is a mystery that man can never fully comprehend. And yet, when people are in desperate straits, they are perfectly willing to call upon God to help them. Then the idea of an omnipotent God isn’t so bad, is it? There is one thing that you can be certain of, however: No matter how mysterious He may seem, God loves YOU more than you can ever imagine. He does not “tolerate” you, or “humor” you; He LOVES you. He really does.
Has anyone ever stopped to consider that the word infidel might not be the right translation?
When you speak Of Infidelity you are speaking of someone who is unfaithful, this is the verb perhaps the infidel, that is so often used to hurl at muslims is speaking of a person who practices infidelity as in they are not faithful to Allah, Yahweh, jehovah…etc etc and not just a person of another religion as EACH religion has passages in EACH book that speak of killing the non believers. The Bible is big on stoning people and sodom and Gomorrah were destroyed because they were not FAITHFUL ( they were infidels) to God…….
I do not wish to stone anyone…… ( not even Bush… and that takes restraint) I am just asking is it possible that the word Infidels in the arabic form of the qu’rran has another meaning.
Well then Chris why did you answer the question???
I do not quote from the Torah because I have not a Torah close by and therefore cannot accuratley state where and when.
There are a lot more of those “unusual” translations. GE points out a bunch of them… and does so in a fun story.
Do people really say “I can never love another man/woman again?”?
Long story short, I screwed up, big time.
And I’m just wondering if people actually sometimes think if a person doesn’t love them back “I can never love another person of the same gender again.”
Again, long story, and I screwed up.
No, this has nothing to do with infidelity.
It’s not me, I don’t need any advice. I’m extrapolating.
I think a guy likes me and might have taken the saying to heart and I like him too!
Yes. I myself have felt like this after losing someone I was in love with. I didn’t lose him because he wasn’t interested, but because of something else. I think people feel this way because they probably aren’t ready to let go of who they consider “the one” and wish to keep their commitment even if they can’t be with the person anymore. When people say “I will love you forever” or other romantic things among those lines, some people are serious when they say it. Of course, a lot of people say the line you mentioned and end up falling for someone else later in life, but some do stick to their word. I kind of see it as a way of honoring the one you care about.
What should I get, if anything, for my wife on our wedding anniversary?
(17 years ago today (8-18-90), my wife and I got married, but before you answer the question up top, please read some pertinent additional information):
We have been seperated almost 6 months now (I guess legally seperated would be the correct term to use) & won’t be officially divorced until the judge says so (or issues the final divorce decree) in February, so technically are we still married, & do I need to get her a gift?
In addition to that, my wife’s infidelity is what led me to file for divorce. So, do I still get her a gift?
OK, last part is that I’m a single Dad of three boys (13, 10 & 7), do I get a gift for her or not?
Looking for a good Yes or No answer, & the reasoning behind the answer as to why. Thanks
For extra credit:
If yes, what would be an appropriate gift?
If no, what would be an entirely inappropriate gift for me to send her?
Actually (snicker, snicker) I was going to send her a vibrator!
No, don’t buy the ho a darned thing! Adulterous people shouldn’t expect anniversary gifts from the partner that they deceived and betrayed!
If you want to stay on good terms with her, take the boys to the store with you and have THEM pick a gift that you pay for but comes from them. My brother and I used to buy my Dad and Mom gifts for their anniversary until Dad passed away and we still get them for Mom.
Steer them to practical stuff: towels, a toaster, a new frying pan. A couple of DVD’s might be good, too, since the boys will get to watch them, too. No use wasting a “good” gift like perfume or jewlery on a slut even if she is the mother of your children. Let her boyfriend buy her perfume and jewelry.
I’m really sorry that she let you down. It’s really decent of you to even think of giving her something but, as you point out, you have your 3 boys and this is more about what’s best for them than what’s best for the skank.
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Can you get one of those CIA inspired vibrators that electrocute the user? Or detonate?
