Infidelity Surviving An Affair
Monday, August 1st, 2011
Any one out there have a marriage that survived infidelity?
If so, how did you and your spouse get past the affair?
never happened to me but lots of women i know including my mother and grandmother.
The women in the relationships cried and moaned but forgave their husbands some because they loved them,others because they blamed themselves because they had been too busy with kids/work and ignored husband, and others stay because they can’t afford to leave husband since he pays most of the bills/mortgage.
The women some of them punished their husbands and made him work hard to prove he loved them and was sorry,others bent over backwards to cater for his every whim even sexually (but secretly resenting it) .
But the point is it was never really forgotten as some brought it up in arguments and when they did eventually all divorce this was always seen as the start it.
Also some women say to themselves well if he has done it to me and i forgave him then i can to do it him and he has too forgive me.so it turns into tit for tat literally!
Surviving an Affair Dealing With Infidelity in Marriage


